Best Geocache EVER!!!

Dear Susannah,

Here is the video that captures the moments around the tipping point in my life. After years of searching for you, you finally found me. I'm so glad...

I may have had more than a sliver of hope that you would say yes after I asked you to marry me and be sealed to me, but you can clearly see by my body language that I knew how important those few minutes were.

I kept telling people, "Saturday is either going to be the best day ever or the worst day ever". Thank you for making it the best day ever and saying yes to embarking on this journey with me.

Love,

Ben

Dear faithful and not-so-faithful blog followers,

Susannah has wanted me to post on this for some time now. I guess the one post a month isn't gonna fly.

Here is the video of the day that I proposed. I'm sure you've all read the previous posts that my fiancee so eloquently wrote about how it went down...but here is the video that our good friend Will put this together. The whole thing went smoothly thanks to Will, David and Ryan. Thanks guys!!

Quick recap of the back story of the proposal:

• Suz didn't know I had the ring (all signs pointed to me being a slacker and not taking action on my desire to marry her because I didn't have the ring) .
• We planned to go geocaching on Saturday morning.
• Friday prep: picked up ring, picked up ammo canister, took to florist to prep
• Saturday prep: picked up ring/flowerbox, met Ryan, David and Will at 8:30am, bought portable power supply for speakers, hours of camara/audio set up by R-D-W, prepare secret codes via text and phone to ensure timing.
• She thought something was up the night before, but events on the morning of (allowing plans to change, making waffles before leaving and me not knowing exactly where to go) pointed to just another day having fun geocaching.

Well...here it is. The best Geocache EVER! Went there with my girlfriend and left with my fiancee.

"Annie are you ok... You've been hit by-- you've been struck by-- a SMOOTH CRIMINAL"

Story time....

Ben and my's date tonight was to meet at our local rock climbing gym when we each finished work. I like rock climbing, I like this gym, I haven't been in a few months, and I'm eager for Ben to teach me new moves, but for some reason I really didn't want to go tonight. My stomach started to ache and I was thinking of excuses for us to do something else the whole drive there. When I saw Ben he was so excited to climb and called me out for "being sick" that I decided to give in and climb with him instead of breaking his heart.

I left my purse on the floorboard of the front seat. Ben always pays... it's a nasty habit I've started.

When we got into the gym he and I were both tempted to go back to my car because I left my contacts case and his camera in my purse.

But we didn't.

Two hours later there was a conversation that went something like this...

"Hey babe... Look at my car..."

"Yeah?"

"Anything look different to you?"

" Oh hey... your window is broken. You're window is broken! Your purse is gone!"

Yes, indeed, my sparkly silver purse was gone.

Things I lost:

-- one of my favorite purses that a special professor friend gave me

-- the necklace I've worn every day for almost 4 years with a Japanese coin on it from SAS (took it off a couple days ago for the temple but put it in my purse to remember to put back on)

-- my last APX pen (you may laugh, but i LOVE how those pens write. Friends would send them to me on my mission)

-- 3 books: A marriage/ love book I'd bought from the temple bookstore on Tuesday, The Book Thief (oh the irony...), and Jane Eyre.

-- My temple recommend (4th rec in 18 months.)

-- debit card, license, cash, etc. that can all be replaced

-- my favorite wallet of all time: soft leather dyed pink from Bangkok

-- Ben's camera with some pix on it I hadn't downloaded

-- My notes book with plans, ideas, #s, etc. for our sealing celebration

Silver lining:

--Ben was with me

-- I didn't flip out and neither was Ben

--Only the window was smashed, nothing else was wrong with the car. Its still drivable, so I can still go to work and still drive to Greenville to meet Ben for Wicked next week (yes, one of my first thoughts)

-- Most likely someone homeless stole it, so they got some cash that will hopefully go to good use.

-- Ben had an extra fleece and gloves in his trunk so I didn't freeze driving home with the window out

-- my temple bag and scriptures were still in the car

-- We got to see the police do that cool fingerprint detection thingy

-- There is a chance the thief left the purse somewhere

-- The spirit worked and warned me not to go... I was the one who didn't listen.

-- I got insurance on my new car two days ago

-- I had an excuse to blast my stereo to hear it over the open window. I LOVE MY STEREO. I have twin 12-amp speakers that make the whole car vibrate and makes Michael Jackson sound AMAZING.

-- My life had been going too well... a fiance, a new amazing job and a new car all in one week. It really isn't fair for just one person. I was due.

-- I didn't like that window anyway

-- I would normally have put my jewelry in my zipped wallet for "safe keeping", but forgot to tonight OR MY ENGAGEMENT RING, COLLEGE RING, AND WATCH WOULD ALL HAVE BEEN STOLEN, TOO.

Have a good day!

Part-Y?? Because we're Engaged!!

Mom was excited to throw us a really fun engagement party. Ben was just as excited because it gave him a chance to reveal a surprise: 3 men from our single's ward had been hiding in the woods when we got engaged recording the event. One, Will, edited the video and we previewed it at our party with my family and our friends on Saturday night.

The video was INCREDIBLE (even though my name is spelled Susannah not Sussanah)! Thank you so much for your hard work, Will, and your foresight and effort, Ben. It's existence wasn't a complete surprise, but the video was so much more than I expected and a wonderful treat. Can't wait to have a copy to show EVERYONE!

The rest of the party was a smashing success, too. Mom went out of her way to have great food and an inviting atmosphere. Her toast welcoming Ben to our family was so sweet, and his to me was, too. And a TON of our friends were there-- I loved seeing how many people wanted to celebrate this occasion!

Everyone should have an engagement party. Once you're engaged, of course :)

I love you, Missy! You're amazing!

Mom had fun entertaining Bro. and Sis. Habel from our Branch Presidency

My sister, Brett, drove up with her fam for the occasion! Here she is with Benjamin the Great and Jack-Jack

Ben made balloon animals. David got bored and hid them.

Some of my favorite girls... Katie, my sister Megan, Becky, Jessica, and Ana Karen-- our personal cheerleader

More peeps

Scattered PIC-tures of the way we were.... Any one remember that from BIG?

SO.... Invitations are a nightmare. I can't explain why, but I have absolutely dreaded that process. Perhaps because it is a multi-function project, requires the cooperation of many people (if you want one, better get us your addresss), and involves a decision I'm not comfortable making by myself.

So I've put off doing it (is it even possible to already be "putting things off" when you've only been engaged a week? Am I actually "on time"?)

An aspect of invitations I was looking forward to, though, was getting engagement pictures taken!! I saw this as a necessary event prior to looking deeply into invitation selection, so it was the first thing we did. Saturday morning we met a friend of ours, Jacqueline, at the River Front (where Ben proposed, remember.)

It was 9:00 am, we were both pretty tired, and I was cold, but we had a lot of fun. It's weird having someone watch and photograph you, but at least I got to hug and kiss Ben! What better way to make an awkward situation fun?

Ben wants our invitation picture to be a surprise (as if we've even picked it out yet...) so I can't post our very favorites. But here are some good ones, anyway :)

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Here Comes the Bride's List...

It's 5:18 a.m. I'm awake after a few good hours of sleep for the third night this week (and it's only Friday). We haven't even been engaged a week, our sealing and celebration plans are pretty simple, and plenty of family and friends have sincerely offered to help, yet I keep getting startled awake with ideas and things to do in the short amount of time between now and April 2nd. I'm so glad that date works for everybody and so relieved and happy to be married to Ben as soon as possible, but 2 months sure isn't enough time for an event planner to organize something amazing! It's miracle intervention time :)

Part of my overwhelm-edness (I think I made that word up. It's 5:18 am. Did I mention that?) is that I have probably eight separate idea and to-do lists floating around my purse (where there is also a blank pad of paper for when inspiration strikes for another list) telling me how to plan this celebration. See, in the last five days we got engaged, went to Atlanta for 2 days, met my dad for the first time in years, I started a new job, Ben has been working, we've had a few nights of church activities, and looked at buying a car for me. All things that are not only time-consuming, but emotionally and physically draining, as well. There just hasn't been a lot of time to sit down and organize all the fun things I've thought about and we've talked about.

Time to organize a little better. I've said I just need a solid amount of time, the internet, and an Excel spreadsheet to get a to-do list, projected budget, and timeline sorted out. I didn't necessarily expect that time to be 5:18 in the morning, but since I've complained I guess I'll take what I can get.

Here it goes.

TO-DO (general) IN A SLIGHTLY TIME SENSITIVE ORDER:

• Book photographer and take engagement pictures
• Pick out invitations with Ben
• Compile addresses and send invitations
• Design celebration dress
• Find tailor to make dress (how long?)
• Check local florists for flower availability, cost
• Make hotel arrangements for out-of-towners
• Decide food menu
• Arrange for certain menu items to be made/ delivered/ set-up
• Rent food equipment if necessary
• Interview possible artists and hire
• Hire strings musicians
• Make guest gifts
• Buy decorations
• Arrange as much help as necessary

ALREADY DONE (Isn't it such a good feeling to check things off a to-do list?)

• Set date
• Reserve temple
• Inform family, friends
• Family making travel plans
• Sarah's hotel

Ok. I feel a little better. I'm going back to bed now. Wish me luck.

Marriage!

A few weeks ago my 4-year-old niece, Catherine, was visiting from Georgia. She had learned about temple marriage in church recently, and was approaching every member of the family and assigning them a spouse. I gave Ben a huge hug when he came over to my house that day, and Cat saw us and yells, "MARRIAGE!" while pointing at us. This settles it: 4-year-olds can predict the future. Or control it. Thanks, Kit Cat!

I am so incredibly happy. I don't want to speak for Ben, but I'm pretty sure he's satisfied with life right now, too :)

My Reaction

When I saw the amo can:

1. I guess this is the cache what we've been looking for!
2. Shouldn't caches be hidden?
3. There are yellow flowers inside. Who would hide yellow flowers?
4. Wait... I like yellow flowers.
5. Why is Ben kneeling next to me and not taking pictures?
6. Could this be for me?

When the song started playing:

7. Yep. This was planned.

When he pulled out the ring:

8. Oh my goodness... He has the ring!
9. When did he get the ring?!
10. It's gorgeous.

When he proposed:

11. UTTER SHOCK. Hands fly to my face.



I am so happy!